Showing posts with label nostalgia. Show all posts
Showing posts with label nostalgia. Show all posts

Wednesday, 8 April 2015

Fings ain't what they used to be

There's a programme on the telly at pres. called "Back In Time For Tea".  The premise is that an ordinary suburban family, who happen to live 50 yards away from yours truly actually, live for one week in the manner of a decade past, eating what people of the time ate and using the technology that was available then too.  There are five episodes in the series, starting in the 50s and ending next week in the 1990s.  Last night's episode took us back to the 80s, when I was in my young adult pomp.

The rather too neat meshing of the premise and and title makes me think they came up with the latter first, and worked backwards.  No matter, it's very entertaining stuff.  The producers hit the reality TV mother lode with the family they picked; they're perfect, unpretentious, intelligent, genuinely funny and also very game.  They take the whole thing seriously enough to enter into the spirit of the age with gusto - even the children.  And going back in time does involve some very real material privations, so the sacrifice of the youngsters is admirable.

The programme is unexpectedly enlightening too.  It shows that most of the major lifestyle tropes that we associate with a particular era are driven by a technical innovations.  The 60s saw the household introduced to nascent convenience food, increased consumer durables and the subsequent invention of the teenager.  The 70s saw mothers forced into the workplace in increasing numbers due to the dire economic situation.  This drove the need for more pre-prepared, convenience meals.  Iceland and Bejams really took off in this decade.  And the 1980s was the era of the microwave.  I'd forgotten that people were actually advised to roast chickens in microwaves in the 1980s, because it was quick.  Unfortunately, the bird came out cooked, but the colour of porridge.  No matter though because you can simply then smother it in Marmite.  Yum Yum.

The odd thing about last night's episode is that it made me feel all nostalgic, which is strange because I hated the 80s.  It was the period when I came of age, but objectively it was not a pleasant time to be young.  Unemployment was endemic and the culture was quite fractured and violent as I recall.  I don't recall the music of the 80s with any great affection.  It was The Jesus And Mary Chain or Johnny Hates Jazz, neither of which I had any time for.  The Smiths were there at the beginning of course, but they burned out quickly, albeit brightly.

The fact that the programme was filmed in the very streets I grew up in probably helped my misty-eyed rememberances.  It just goes to show I suppose that we all mythologise our own pasts.  Now I've realised this, I might rework mine to include a bit more derring-do and gymnastic shagging than the current iteration.  If Clare Grogan reads this, I apologise in advance.






Tuesday, 3 March 2015

Nostalgia

I hooked up with an old friend on Facebook earlier today.  So far - so ordinaire.  I say friend, but in reality we were part of a large cohort of then recent graduates who worked for the University of London Exam Board for a time in  the mid-nineties.  

It was a joyous time for all concerned.  The weather was good; the pop music was good.  And all of us knew we had a long and carefree summer ahead of us, our last in all probability, before the po-faced and sober realities of middle-class adult life kicked-in.  Michelle, my new FB pal, was part of that golden generation, as was I.  We weren't particularly close, but she was a really kind and good companion to have during those weeks and months - funny, generous and wise.  So when I saw her name on a mutual friend's FB timeline, I had a Proustian swell of happy memories.  I spoke to her a few moments ago.  She lives in Exeter, like an grown up might.

I really dislike nostalgia.  I gives me the yips.  I find it difficult to stop the flow of thought and images once I've given in to a bout of mental-over-shoulder-peerage.  It's like my brain is struggling to process all the data I've asked it to dredge up at once, like Excel having a spazz when you exceed a million rows or something.

Tuesday, 3 February 2015

Woof! Begorrah...and relax

Well, I'm back at my desk after a tiring weekend at my sister's place in Ireland.  Too much drinking, not enough sleep and approximately half a fluid ounce of exercise have rendered me useless.  I'm physically frail and emotionally running on empty.

It was lovely to spend some time with the sibs and their better halves, as we do this so infrequently as adults, but I always come away from these events feeling slightly down and introspective.  It always occurs to me as I chat with my sisters that we have a lot of collective water until the familial bridge now, and that time is of the essence.  I don't like introspection.  It hurts.

Anyway, back now, so onwards and upwards.  The missus and I have a free weekend this weekend, so I'm not feeling under pressure.  It also helped that I had a day off yesterday, which I spent in industrious, domestic bliss.  I got ton(nes) done.  Again, this industry on my part is another symptom of the time-slipping-by anxiety.  In my 20s, I'd have gone to a gallery or watched an impenetrable art-house film.  Now I regard those pastimes as wasteful and decadent.  My decadent days are behind me I'm afraid.

Tuesday, 16 September 2014

Hang on - my past's in there.

A late post today as I was too busy at work to complete one on their time.  Yeah, I know, wtf?

The pub that I and my schoolmates co-opted as our local when we hit 15 is being demolished.  I cycled past it this morning; it's half gone already.  I don't suppose there's much left as I type.

It hasn't been a boozer for some years now.  It was a Polish strip club for a while and then a "venue", whatever in the heck that means.  It did cut me to the quick to see it being torn down.  I had some very joyous memories invested in that pile of London Yellow bricks.

One shouldn't get too sentimental, I suppose.  I dare say there are plenty of Polish navvies who have great memories of watching strippers in there in the mid 2000s.  They'd give me pub 80s pub talk short shrift I'm sure.  There might also be one or two company functionaries somewhere who have fond memories of the place too.  "Do you remember that presentation about tax breaks for SMEs we saw there in 2011?  Legendary."